Jane Juffer’s article “Single Mother: The Emergence of the Domestic Intellectual” discusses the idea of single motherhood as a choice. Juffer puts forth ideas such as the “nuclear family,” and the “othering” of single mothers. Today, more than half of women under 30 who have children are unmarried, and a total 1/3 of children are born to single mothers. Becauese of this, the idea of single motherhood and it’s issues are rapidly becoming important for not just the many mothers who are having the children without partners, but to the children as well. Despite the large number of children growing up with single mother’s, being a single mother, specifically in America has many disadvantages. These disadvantages, and especially the one’s Juffer focuses on are political and disadvantages that have to do with working and child care.
There is a great lack of child care in the United States and it is very difficult for single mothers to be satisfied with their work as women in the workforce, and in their work as mothers, parenting their children. It is hard for women to be successful in work because of the lack in child care and it is hard for women to be successful in parenting because they must seek childcare while they are at work, creating a paradox that seems to now allow mothers to be successful at either when they aim to succeed and do well as employees and mothers. Political setbacks also exist such as the Welfare Reform Act, passed in the 1990s, placed many limits on what single parents can do. This combined with the lack of childcare in the U.S places stress on single parents and makes it almost impossible for them to succeed.
There are also differences between single mothers who are white, black or Latina because things like assumptions about them and incomes differ between them. Despite these challenges, some positivity exists in being a single mother, such as a newly changed media perspective, which has positivity about single mothers embedded in it. This is apparent in shows like “Gilmore Girls.” However, with single mothers must deal with more than providing and caring for their child, they may also be in school while working and caring for their children and their children may also have disabilities or any other number of special circumstances. Although the “othering” of single mothers has somewhat faded because of the sheer large amount of single mothers that keeps growing every day, political reform and childcare would greatly improve the quality of single mother’s and their children’s lives.